\u0130nternete d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcler desem, yaz\u0131m\u0131n ne \u00fczerine oldu\u011funu \u00e7ok iyi anlars\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 \u0130zledi\u011fim g\u00fcnden beri bunun \u00fczerine bir yaz\u0131 yazsam m\u0131, yazmasam m\u0131 diye olduk\u00e7a ikilemde kald\u0131m. O kadar \u00e7ok yaraland\u0131m ki o g\u00fcnden sonra, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011fr\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ve yalvar\u0131\u015flar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli kulaklar\u0131mda yank\u0131land\u0131 ve bu, yaram\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha da derinle\u015ftirdi\u2026<\/p>\n
HEP\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130N B\u0130R EVLADI VARDIR. Evlat sahibi olabilmek i\u00e7in illa bir anne ya da baba olmam\u0131z gerekmez. \u00d6rne\u011fin en yak\u0131n akraban\u0131z\u0131n d\u00fcnyalar tatl\u0131s\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131, sizin de k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z say\u0131l\u0131r. Veya sokakta g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz, kimsesiz bir \u00e7ocuk bile\u2026 Ona g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ba\u011flam\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z, bilin ki onu sahiplenmi\u015f ve onu evlad\u0131n\u0131z yerine koymu\u015fsunuzdur.<\/p>\n
E\u011fer ben i\u00e7imdekileri siz okurlar\u0131ma d\u00f6kmezsem, bu ac\u0131m\u0131 hafifletemeyece\u011fim. \u0130nan\u0131n, yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m her kelimeyle biraz daha hafifliyor omuzlar\u0131m.<\/p>\n
S\u00f6ze nas\u0131l giri\u015f yapsam, ne desem de bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 c\u00fcmlesi olu\u015ftursam diye \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm ancak bulamad\u0131m. Duygular\u0131m, dilimi ba\u011flad\u0131 sanki\u2026<\/p>\n
\u201cSEN, VAH\u015e\u0130! Akl\u0131ma her geldi\u011finde, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u015f\u00fcphem kalm\u0131yor. G\u00f6kteki karanl\u0131k bile senin i\u00e7inden daha ayd\u0131nl\u0131k! \u0130nan bana, g\u00fcne\u015fi koysalar i\u00e7ine yine de ayd\u0131nlanamayacaks\u0131n!\u201d diye ba\u015flayabilirdim yaz\u0131ma. Ancak bu \u00fcslup bana uygun de\u011fil. O y\u00fczden \u015f\u00f6yle ba\u015flamak istiyorum\u2026<\/p>\n
Anne\u2026 Herkesin bir annesi vard\u0131r. O halde nedir bu anne, kimdir bu y\u00fcce s\u0131fata lay\u0131k olan?<\/p>\n
Anne, TDK\u2019ye g\u00f6re \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fu olan kad\u0131n, ana, valide, kocakar\u0131, mader, nene, aba.\u201d anlam\u0131na gelmektedir. Ancak ben, her kelimenin bir maddi anlam\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi bir de bende uyand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlamlar\u0131na da bakar\u0131m. Bana g\u00f6re:<\/p>\n
Anne, \u015fefkattir. Her g\u00fcn siz uyurken gelip \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc \u00f6rtendir.<\/p>\n
Anne, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyendir. Kap\u0131dan i\u00e7eri her girdi\u011finizde, sizi g\u00fcler y\u00fczle kar\u015f\u0131layand\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Anne, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en yetenekli a\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Size, en g\u00fczel yemekleri yapan kad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Anne, sab\u0131rd\u0131r. Ne yaparsan\u0131z yap\u0131n, sizi anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131layan, empati yetisi y\u00fcksek bir melektir.<\/p>\n
Anne, i\u00e7indeki yan\u0131k t\u00fcrk\u00fcy\u00fc, y\u00fcz\u00fcnde mutluluk olarak yans\u0131tan yetenekli bir oyuncudur.<\/p>\n
Anne, m\u00fcjdelenendir. Aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131ndan, cennet izlenir.<\/p>\n
Anne, MERHAMETT\u0130R. \u00c7ocu\u011funa el kald\u0131rmayan, onu koruyup kollayan ki\u015fidir.<\/p>\n
Anne, \u00fcvey bile olsa anne demektir. Sonu\u00e7ta, yukar\u0131daki s\u0131fatlara sahip olan bir ki\u015fi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na da annelik yapabilir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n parlak bir gelece\u011fi, y\u00fcce g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc annelerimizin ellerinden ge\u00e7mektedir. Size yani d\u00fcnyadaki b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya annelerine, yalvar\u0131rcas\u0131na sesleniyorum buradan\u2026 L\u00fctfen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla arkada\u015f olun, onlar\u0131n dertlerini dinleyin. \u015eiddet uygulamaktan sak\u0131n\u0131n. Ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda olursa olsun, ne kadar yaramaz olursa olsun, sak\u0131n ola ki k\u0131zmay\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklara \u015fiddet uygularsak, gelecek y\u0131llarda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n da can\u0131n\u0131 yakaca\u011f\u0131z, bunu unutmay\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n
Sevgilerimle\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0130nternete d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcler desem, yaz\u0131m\u0131n ne \u00fczerine oldu\u011funu \u00e7ok iyi anlars\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 \u0130zledi\u011fim g\u00fcnden beri bunun \u00fczerine bir yaz\u0131 yazsam m\u0131, yazmasam m\u0131 diye olduk\u00e7a ikilemde kald\u0131m. O kadar \u00e7ok yaraland\u0131m ki o g\u00fcnden sonra, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011fr\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ve yalvar\u0131\u015flar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli kulaklar\u0131mda yank\u0131land\u0131 ve bu, yaram\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha da derinle\u015ftirdi\u2026 HEP\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130N B\u0130R EVLADI VARDIR. Evlat …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":48521,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[51,1,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-ayhan","category-genel","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9820\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}