Bir\u00e7ok anne ve baba kendi \u00f6z evlatlar\u0131 i\u00e7in ne yaz\u0131k ki iyi bir \u00f6\u011fretmen ve \u00f6rnek olam\u0131yor. Bu eksiklik o ailedeki anne ve baba aras\u0131ndaki her t\u00fcrl\u00fc uyu\u015fmazl\u0131k, baban\u0131n yeteri kadar liderli\u011finin hissedilememesi, anne veya baban\u0131n islam\u0131n emretti\u011fi bi\u00e7imde rollerini iyi \u00fcslenememesi, cehalet … gibi daha bir\u00e7ok eksiklik ve aksakl\u0131klardan kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 biliniyor.
\nAnneler ve babalar hep yukar\u0131lara bakar a\u015fa\u011f\u0131y\u0131, ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n dibini, bast\u0131klar\u0131 zemini ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7evrelerini, en \u00f6nemlisi kendilerinden birer bar\u00e7a olan yavrular\u0131n\u0131\u00a0unuturlar, kendi d\u00fcnyalar\u0131, sorunlar\u0131\u00a0ve hevesleri i\u00e7inde bo\u011fulurlarsa elbette mum gibi diplerine \u0131\u015f\u0131k vermez, ayd\u0131nlatamazlar.
\n\u0130slam her hususta \u00f6nce kendimizi, sonra en yak\u0131n \u00e7evremizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemizi, kontrol etmemizi, e\u011fitmemizi, \u00f6\u011fretmemizi, yard\u0131m etmemizi onlara faydal\u0131 olmam\u0131z\u0131 emreder. Yarat\u0131lana kar\u015f\u0131 y\u00fcklendi\u011fimiz bu sorumluluk bilinci F\u0131rat kenar\u0131nda otlayan ke\u00e7iye kadar uzan\u0131r.
\nKendimizden, han\u0131m\u0131m\u0131zdan, evlatlar\u0131m\u0131zdan, akrabadan, konu kom\u015fudan ba\u015flayarak t\u00fcm alemi ku\u015fatan bu sorumlulu\u011fa \u00fcmmet bilinci denir.
\nNe zaman \u00fcmmet bilincinden koptu isek, o zaman kulluk sorumlulu\u011fumuzdan da uzakla\u015ft\u0131k, egoistle\u015ftik, Allah’\u0131n hukukunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k. Bu da bizi i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam\u0131yor gibi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu bat\u0131 batakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bal\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131na saplad\u0131.
\nBuradan kurtulu\u015fumuz \u00fcmmet bilincini tekrar, yeniden ku\u015fanmakla olacakt\u0131r. Bu batakl\u0131klar\u0131 \u00fcreten iradeye, sisteme, mant\u0131\u011fa, d\u00fczene boyun e\u011ferek, gerdan k\u0131rarak, bizi bu hallere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcreni taklit ederek, onlara a\u015f\u0131k olarak\u00a0de\u011fil.
\n\u0130slam; ”LA” der, \u00f6nce Allaha\u00a0inkar ve\u00a0isyan\u0131 red eder, sonra ”\u0130LLALLAH” diyerek, Ona iman ve inanc\u0131 kabul eder. Hem inkar\u0131n i\u00e7inde debelenmek, hem de ”inand\u0131m, iman ettim” diyerek g\u00fcn\u00fc kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak islami, ahlaki, vicdani ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanca bir duru\u015f de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsl\u00fcman! Dibini ayd\u0131nlatamasan da gecenin zifiri karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 yana yana kendini\u00a0do\u011facak g\u00fcne\u00a0feda eden bir Mum\u00a0 gibi olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fand\u0131r. O \u00f6nce karanl\u0131\u011fa ba\u015fkald\u0131r\u0131r, sonra do\u011facak g\u00fcne teslim olur. Daha sonra da dibini ayd\u0131nlatarak kullu\u011funu yerine getirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
”K\u00fcll\u00fck\u00fcm rain ve K\u00fcll\u00fck\u00fcm mesul\u00fcn an raiyetihi”\u00a0 Hepiniz \u00e7obans\u0131n\u0131z ve hepiniz\u00a0mesul olduklar\u0131n\u0131zdan sorumlusunuz. (Hadisi \u015eerif, ravi; Hz. \u00d6mer)<\/p>\n
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Bir\u00e7ok anne ve baba kendi \u00f6z evlatlar\u0131 i\u00e7in ne yaz\u0131k ki iyi bir \u00f6\u011fretmen ve \u00f6rnek olam\u0131yor. Bu eksiklik o ailedeki anne ve baba aras\u0131ndaki her t\u00fcrl\u00fc uyu\u015fmazl\u0131k, baban\u0131n yeteri kadar liderli\u011finin hissedilememesi, anne veya baban\u0131n islam\u0131n emretti\u011fi bi\u00e7imde rollerini iyi \u00fcslenememesi, cehalet … gibi daha bir\u00e7ok eksiklik ve aksakl\u0131klardan kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 biliniyor. Anneler ve babalar …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48521,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[49,38,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6764","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-arif","category-guncel","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6764","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6764"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6764\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}