{"id":54855,"date":"2026-07-27T21:58:34","date_gmt":"2026-07-27T18:58:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/?p=54855"},"modified":"2026-07-27T22:14:36","modified_gmt":"2026-07-27T19:14:36","slug":"dost-sofralari-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/dost-sofralari-2\/","title":{"rendered":"DOST SOFRALARI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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\u0130nsan, yaln\u0131zca ekmekle de\u011fil; muhabbetle, hikmetle ve karde\u015flikle de doyar. Baz\u0131 sofralar vard\u0131r ki orada sadece kar\u0131nlar de\u011fil, g\u00f6n\u00fcller de doyar; yaln\u0131zca \u00e7aylar demlenmez, dostluklar da demlenir; yaln\u0131zca ekmek b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fclmez, umutlar, dualar ve idealler de payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte salih insanlar\u0131n sofralar\u0131 b\u00f6yledir. Bu sofralarda s\u00f6z, Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zeterek s\u00f6ylenir, bak\u0131\u015flar merhameti ta\u015f\u0131r, suskunluk bile bir tefekk\u00fcr h\u00e2lidir. Nice b\u00fcy\u00fck hizmetler, nice g\u00fczel kararlar, nice hay\u0131rl\u0131 ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar g\u00f6steri\u015fli salonlarda de\u011fil; m\u00fctevaz\u0131 dost sofralar\u0131nda filizlenmi\u015ftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bereket, yeme\u011fin \u00e7oklu\u011funda de\u011fil; niyetin temizli\u011finde, kalplerin samimiyetinde ve Rabb\u2019imizin l\u00fctfundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Samsun\/ Tekkek\u00f6y; bir tekkenin dualar\u0131yla, kurulan bir sofran\u0131n bereketiyle maya tutmu\u015f bir \u015fehirdir. \u015eeyh Yusuf Zeynettin Hazretleri’nden miras kalan o kadim payla\u015fma ruhunu, bug\u00fcn yazar Mustafa Kolcu Hocam\u0131zla ayn\u0131 sofra etraf\u0131nda yad ediyoruz. Muhabbetimiz ve bereketimiz daim olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130slam medeniyeti, sofray\u0131 yaln\u0131zca yemek yenilen bir yer olarak g\u00f6rmemi\u015ftir. Sofra; karde\u015fli\u011fin kuruldu\u011fu, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerin birbirine a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, ilmin konu\u015fuldu\u011fu, hikmetin payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir mektep olmu\u015ftur. Ayn\u0131 kaptan lokma alan insanlar\u0131n kalpleri de birbirine yakla\u015f\u0131r. Bir bardak \u00e7ay\u0131n etraf\u0131nda saatler s\u00fcren sohbetler, bazen y\u0131llarca okunacak kitaplardan daha derin izler b\u0131rak\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc samimiyetin dili farkl\u0131d\u0131r. G\u00f6n\u00fclden \u00e7\u0131kan bir c\u00fcmle, g\u00f6n\u00fclde kendisine mutlaka bir yer bulur. \u0130\u015fte dost sofralar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131 da buradad\u0131r. Orada g\u00f6steri\u015f de\u011fil tevazu, rekabet de\u011fil muhabbet, d\u00fcnya hesab\u0131 de\u011fil ahiret endi\u015fesi vard\u0131r<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peygamber Efendimiz, sofray\u0131 bir ibadet ve \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr vesilesi olarak de\u011ferlendirmi\u015ftir. O, yeme\u011fi israf etmeden yer, nimeti k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemez, sofraya oturan hi\u00e7 kimseyi ay\u0131rmazd\u0131. Sofrada bulunan herkes kendisini de\u011ferli hissederdi. Efendimiz, \u201cBir ki\u015finin yeme\u011fi iki ki\u015fiye, iki ki\u015finin yeme\u011fi d\u00f6rt ki\u015fiye yeter.\u201d <\/strong>buyurarak bereketin payla\u015fmakla \u00e7o\u011falaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 haber vermi\u015ftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah\u2019\u0131n bereketi, c\u00f6mertli\u011fin ve karde\u015fli\u011fin \u00fczerine iner. Sofran\u0131n en g\u00fczel s\u00fcs\u00fc, \u00e7e\u015fit \u00e7e\u015fit yemekler de\u011fil; g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2k, g\u00fcler y\u00fcz ve \u015f\u00fckreden bir kalptir. Sofra, Rabb\u2019imizin verdi\u011fi nimetleri hat\u0131rlaman\u0131n ve O\u2019na hamdetmenin en g\u00fczel mek\u00e2nlar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Salih insanlar\u0131n sofralar\u0131nda dedikoduya yer yoktur. Kimsenin kusuru konu\u015fulmaz; g\u00f6n\u00fcl k\u0131racak s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylenmez. Orada bir karde\u015fin derdi payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r, bir yetimin ihtiyac\u0131 hat\u0131rlan\u0131r, \u00fcmmetin s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm aran\u0131r. Kur\u2019an\u2019dan ayetler okunur, Peygamber Efendimizin \u00f6rnekli\u011fi konu\u015fulur, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin hat\u0131ralar\u0131 anlat\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsan o sofradan kalkarken sadece doymu\u015f olmaz; ayn\u0131 zamanda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye, iyilik yapmaya ve kendisini d\u00fczeltmeye dair yeni bir azim kazan\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bereket budur. Bir lokman\u0131n insan\u0131 hayra y\u00f6nlendirmesi, bir sohbetin \u00f6mr\u00fcn istikametini de\u011fi\u015ftirmesi ger\u00e7ek berekettir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tarihimize bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda b\u00fcy\u00fck medeniyet hamlelerinin arkas\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman dost meclislerini ve bereketli sofralar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. \u00c2limler, devlet adamlar\u0131, \u015fairler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl insanlar\u0131 ayn\u0131 sofralarda bulu\u015fmu\u015f; fikirlerini olgunla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, birbirlerinden istifade etmi\u015flerdir. Tekke sofralar\u0131, imaretler, ahi zaviyeleri ve vak\u0131f a\u015fevleri sadece a\u00e7lar\u0131 doyurmam\u0131\u015f; ayn\u0131 zamanda toplumun vicdan\u0131n\u0131 da beslemi\u015ftir. Bir tas \u00e7orban\u0131n etraf\u0131nda kurulan karde\u015flik, bazen koca \u015fehirlerin mayas\u0131 olmu\u015ftur. Medeniyetimiz, payla\u015fman\u0131n ve ikram\u0131n \u00fczerine y\u00fckselmi\u015ftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc veren el kadar, ikram edilen sofran\u0131n da insan\u0131 olgunla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilinmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bug\u00fcn de M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu \u015feylerden biri, yeniden dost sofralar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltmakt\u0131r. Fakat bu sofralar yaln\u0131zca yemek davetleri olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu sofralarda Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131n sesi duyulmal\u0131, Peygamberimizin ahl\u00e2k\u0131 hat\u0131rlanmal\u0131, \u00fcmmetin meseleleri konu\u015fulmal\u0131, gen\u00e7lerin sorular\u0131 dinlenmeli ve birbirimize dua edilmelidir. Bir sofran\u0131n bereketi, masadaki tabak say\u0131s\u0131yla de\u011fil; etraf\u0131ndaki g\u00f6n\u00fcllerin birbirine olan yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Ayn\u0131 lokmay\u0131 payla\u015fan insanlar, zamanla ayn\u0131 duay\u0131, ayn\u0131 derdi ve ayn\u0131 sevinci de payla\u015fmaya ba\u015flarlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dost sofralar\u0131n\u0131n en g\u00fczel meyvesi sevgidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc birlikte yenilen lokmalar, kalplerde g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen k\u00f6pr\u00fcler kurar. \u0130nsan, kendisini seven insanlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda oturdu\u011funu hissetti\u011finde yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutur. K\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar yumu\u015far, yanl\u0131\u015f anlamalar erir, mesafeler k\u0131sal\u0131r. Bir tebess\u00fcm, bir ikram, bir \u201cBuyurun efendim.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc bile g\u00f6n\u00fcllerde unutulmaz izler b\u0131rak\u0131r. Nice dostluklar bir sofrada ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f, nice k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar bir sofrada sona ermi\u015ftir. Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131 i\u00e7in kurulan sofralar, kalpler aras\u0131ndaki buzlar\u0131 eriten rahmet sofralar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne yaz\u0131k ki modern hayat, insanlar\u0131 ayn\u0131 evin i\u00e7inde bile farkl\u0131 masalara mahk\u00fbm etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Ekranlar \u00e7o\u011fald\u0131, sohbetler azald\u0131. Telefonlar konu\u015furken g\u00f6n\u00fcller sustu. Oysa sofralar, g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze gelmenin, h\u00e2l hat\u0131r sorman\u0131n, birbirini dinlemenin en g\u00fczel vesilesidir. Evlerimizde yeniden bereket istiyorsak sofralar\u0131m\u0131za muhabbeti geri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z, sadece g\u00fczel yemeklerin de\u011fil; g\u00fczel sohbetlerin de i\u00e7inde b\u00fcy\u00fcmelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gelece\u011fin sa\u011flam \u015fahsiyetleri, sevgiyle kurulmu\u015f aile sofralar\u0131nda yeti\u015fir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Salih insanlar\u0131n bir araya geldi\u011fi sofralarda yap\u0131lan dualar da bamba\u015fkad\u0131r. Orada herkes \u00f6nce kendisi i\u00e7in de\u011fil, karde\u015fi i\u00e7in dua eder. Hastalar hat\u0131rlan\u0131r, mazlumlar unutulmaz, \u00fcmmetin birli\u011fi i\u00e7in eller semaya a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsan, dostlar\u0131n\u0131n \u201cAllah seni muhafaza etsin.\u201d, \u201cRabbim ailene huzur versin.\u201d, \u201cAllah seni hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flerde daim k\u0131ls\u0131n.\u201d<\/strong> duas\u0131n\u0131 duydu\u011funda y\u00fcre\u011finde tarifsiz bir huzur hisseder. Belki de nice musibetler, bu samimi dualar\u0131n h\u00fcrmetine kap\u0131m\u0131zdan geri d\u00f6nmektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc m\u00fcminin m\u00fcmine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 dua, karde\u015flik hukukunun en g\u00fczel ifadelerinden biridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bizler de sofralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yeniden ihya etmeliyiz. Evlerimizi yaln\u0131zca misafir a\u011f\u0131rlanan mek\u00e2nlar de\u011fil; g\u00f6n\u00fcllerin bulu\u015ftu\u011fu limanlar h\u00e2line getirmeliyiz. \u0130mk\u00e2n\u0131m\u0131z az olsa da payla\u015fmaktan \u00e7ekinmemeliyiz. Bir tas \u00e7orba, birka\u00e7 dilim ekmek ve demli bir \u00e7ay bazen en zengin ziyafetten daha k\u0131ymetlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yedikleri yeme\u011fi de\u011fil, g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri samimiyeti hat\u0131rlarlar. Sofran\u0131n ger\u00e7ek bereketi, ikram edilen lokman\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde de\u011fil; ikram eden y\u00fcre\u011fin geni\u015fli\u011findedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Geliniz, dost sofralar\u0131n\u0131 yeniden \u00e7o\u011faltal\u0131m. Kalplerimizi birbirine yakla\u015ft\u0131ran, karde\u015fli\u011fi g\u00fc\u00e7lendiren, iyili\u011fi \u00e7o\u011faltan, do\u011fruyu ve g\u00fczeli konu\u015fan sofralar kural\u0131m. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z bu sofralarda b\u00fcy\u00fcklerini dinlesin, gen\u00e7ler bu sofralarda umut bulsun, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z bu sofralarda yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hissetsin. Her lokmam\u0131z \u015f\u00fckre, her sohbetimiz hikmete, her duam\u0131z \u00fcmmetin birli\u011fine vesile olsun. Rabb\u2019imiz sofralar\u0131m\u0131zdan bereketi, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerimizden muhabbeti, dilimizden g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fc, hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan samimiyeti eksik etmesin. Dost sofralar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca insanlar\u0131n bir araya geldi\u011fi yerler de\u011fil; rahmetin indi\u011fi, karde\u015fli\u011fin b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131na do\u011fru birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kutlu duraklar olsun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc unutmayal\u0131m ki, bir medeniyet \u00f6nce g\u00f6n\u00fcllerde kurulur; g\u00f6n\u00fcller ise en g\u00fczel, dost sofralar\u0131nda birbirine a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0130nsan, yaln\u0131zca ekmekle de\u011fil; muhabbetle, hikmetle ve karde\u015flikle de doyar. Baz\u0131 sofralar vard\u0131r ki orada sadece kar\u0131nlar de\u011fil, g\u00f6n\u00fcller de doyar; yaln\u0131zca \u00e7aylar demlenmez, dostluklar da demlenir; yaln\u0131zca ekmek b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fclmez, umutlar, dualar ve idealler de payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte salih insanlar\u0131n sofralar\u0131 b\u00f6yledir. Bu sofralarda s\u00f6z, Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zeterek s\u00f6ylenir, bak\u0131\u015flar merhameti ta\u015f\u0131r, suskunluk bile bir tefekk\u00fcr …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":54859,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/image.png","fifu_image_alt":"","_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,54,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54855","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-guncel","category-omer","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54855","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54855"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54855\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":54860,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54855\/revisions\/54860"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54859"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54855"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54855"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54855"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}