{"id":54717,"date":"2026-06-30T19:24:43","date_gmt":"2026-06-30T16:24:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/?p=54717"},"modified":"2026-07-01T20:18:35","modified_gmt":"2026-07-01T17:18:35","slug":"dervis-sami-agabey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/dervis-sami-agabey\/","title":{"rendered":"DERV\u0130\u015e SAM\u0130 A\u011eABEY"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dervi\u015f\u2026 Bu kelimeyi duydu\u011fumuzda \u00e7o\u011fumuzun zihninde ge\u00e7mi\u015f zaman\u0131n kap\u0131lar\u0131 aralan\u0131r. G\u00f6zlerimizin \u00f6n\u00fcne y\u00fczy\u0131llar \u00f6nce ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, bir derg\u00e2h\u0131n avlusunda sessizce zikir \u00e7eken, d\u00fcnyaya s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc Allah\u2019a vermi\u015f insanlar gelir. Sanki dervi\u015flik eskilerde kalm\u0131\u015f, kitaplar\u0131n sararm\u0131\u015f sayfalar\u0131na hapsolmu\u015f bir hayat tarz\u0131d\u0131r. Oysa hakikat hi\u00e7 de \u00f6yle de\u011fildir. Allah dostlar\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u00e7a\u011fda eksik olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Her devirde, her \u015fehirde, her mahallede, kendisini \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131karmadan ya\u015fayan, konu\u015ftu\u011funda g\u00f6n\u00fclleri ferahlatan, sustu\u011funda bile h\u00e2liyle insanlara istikamet g\u00f6steren g\u00fczel insanlar vard\u0131r. Onlar kendilerini <strong>\u201cdervi\u015f\u201d<\/strong> diye tan\u0131tmazlar. Belki de ger\u00e7ek dervi\u015flik tam da budur. \u0130\u015fte benim g\u00f6n\u00fcl d\u00fcnyamda ya\u015fayan b\u00f6yle g\u00fczel insanlardan biri de Tekkek\u00f6y\u2019\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn medar\u0131iftihar\u0131 Hac\u0131 Sami B\u00fclb\u00fcl A\u011fabey&#8217;dir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl meclisinin hat\u0131ras\u0131&#8230; Soldan sa\u011fa: Dervi\u015f Sami B\u00fclb\u00fcl A\u011fabey, \u00d6mer Naci Y\u0131lmaz ve Dervi\u015f Sami A\u011fabey\u2019in k\u0131ymetli a\u011fabeyi Ali B\u00fclb\u00fcl A\u011fabey.<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r, onlar\u0131 anlatmaya kendilerinden de\u011fil, yeti\u015ftikleri aileden ba\u015flamak gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fczel meyve, sa\u011flam k\u00f6k\u00fcn eseridir. Sami A\u011fabey\u2019in annesi, \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131mdan haf\u0131zamda kalan en m\u00fcbarek han\u0131mefendilerden biridir. O ya\u015flarda sahabe han\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 ne kadar tan\u0131yabilirdim ki&#8230; Ama \u00e7ocuk kalbim onun y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki nuru, konu\u015fmas\u0131ndaki edebi ve h\u00e2lindeki teslimiyeti g\u00f6r\u00fcyordu. Ne zaman kendisini g\u00f6rsem, i\u00e7imden: <strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>Herh\u00e2lde sahabe han\u0131mlar\u0131ndan biri de b\u00f6yleydi<\/strong>.<strong>\u201d<\/strong> diye ge\u00e7irirdim. \u00c7ocukluk duygular\u0131n\u0131n hesab\u0131 olmaz. Onlar hesapla de\u011fil, hissedi\u015fle konu\u015fur. Bug\u00fcn geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda o hissin ne kadar temiz ve ne kadar masum oldu\u011funu daha iyi anl\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ailenin di\u011fer b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc Hac\u0131 R\u0131fat Aga<a href=\"#_ftn1\" id=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> ise \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzun unutulmaz simalar\u0131ndand\u0131. Mahallede onu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde i\u00e7imize tarif edemedi\u011fimiz bir huzur dolard\u0131. Biz \u00e7ocuklar onun ilmini, irfan\u0131n\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131 bilmezdik ama y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki nuru g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fck. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck akl\u0131m\u0131zla ona <strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>Allah Dede\u201d<\/strong> ad\u0131n\u0131 takm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce Allah\u2019\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorduk. Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e anlad\u0131m ki \u00e7ocuklar yapmac\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil, samimiyeti g\u00f6r\u00fcr. \u0130nsan, Rabb\u2019ine ne kadar yak\u0131nsa o yak\u0131nl\u0131k bir \u015fekilde y\u00fcz\u00fcne, s\u00f6z\u00fcne ve y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne de yans\u0131yor. Hac\u0131 R\u0131fat Aga da b\u00f6yle m\u00fcbarek insanlardan biriydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u015fte Sami A\u011fabey, b\u00f6yle bir oca\u011f\u0131n yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi g\u00fczel bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl adam\u0131d\u0131r. Onun \u015fahsiyetinde annesinin -Ay\u015fe Yengemizin- merhametini, dedesinin vakar\u0131n\u0131 ve ailesinin ihl\u00e2s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. O, g\u00f6n\u00fcl d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131zca belli insanlara de\u011fil, \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n rahmet \u015femsiyesi alt\u0131nda bulu\u015fmak isteyen herkese a\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yan\u0131na gelen hi\u00e7 kimseye kimli\u011fini, makam\u0131n\u0131, servetini, me\u015frebini sormaz. \u00d6nce insan\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilir ki Allah\u2019\u0131n yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sevmek, <strong>Yaratan<\/strong>\u2019a duyulan sevginin bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sami A\u011fabey\u2019in yan\u0131nda oturdu\u011funuzda zaman\u0131n nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini fark etmezsiniz. Sohbeti yormaz, dinlendirir. Konu\u015furken g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc ortaya koyar. Bilgisi vard\u0131r fakat bilgiyle \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz. Tecr\u00fcbesi vard\u0131r ama tecr\u00fcbesini bir bask\u0131 unsuru h\u00e2line getirmez. Dinlemeyi bilir. Soruyu sab\u0131rla dinler, cevab\u0131 nezaketle verir. Onun yan\u0131nda insan kendisini misafir gibi de\u011fil, aileden biri gibi hisseder. Belki de g\u00f6n\u00fcl insanlar\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131rr\u0131 budur. \u0130nsanlara de\u011fer verdiklerini hissettirebilmeleri\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bug\u00fcn bir\u00e7ok evin kap\u0131s\u0131 kilitlidir ama daha ac\u0131s\u0131, bir\u00e7ok g\u00f6nl\u00fcn kap\u0131s\u0131 da kilitlidir. Oysa Sami A\u011fabey\u2019in kap\u0131s\u0131 da g\u00f6nl\u00fc de a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Derg\u00e2h dedi\u011fimiz yer bazen g\u00f6steri\u015fli binalar de\u011fildir, samimiyetin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fctevaz\u0131 mek\u00e2nlard\u0131r. Orada demlenen \u00e7ay\u0131n tad\u0131 yaln\u0131zca \u00e7aydan gelmez. Kaynayan \u00e7orban\u0131n lezzeti yaln\u0131zca malzemesinden de\u011fildir. O \u00e7ay\u0131n i\u00e7ine muhabbet, o \u00e7orban\u0131n i\u00e7ine ihlas kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Nice yolcu, nice dost, nice garip o sofrada yaln\u0131zca karn\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc de doyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat\u0131m boyunca bir\u00e7ok de\u011ferli insan tan\u0131d\u0131m. Fakat baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r ki varl\u0131klar\u0131 bile insana g\u00fcven verir. Onlar\u0131n ayn\u0131 mahallede ya\u015famas\u0131, ayn\u0131 camide namaz k\u0131lmas\u0131, ayn\u0131 sokaktan ge\u00e7mesi bile bir nimettir. Bir Ramazan ak\u015fam\u0131, evde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m iftar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan i\u00e7imi tarifsiz bir duygu kaplad\u0131. Kendi kendime de\u011fil, Rabb\u2019ime \u015f\u00f6yle dua ettim: <strong>\u201cAllah\u2019\u0131m! Bizi b\u00f6yle bir aile ile kom\u015fu eyledi\u011fin i\u00e7in Sana sonsuz \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun, hamdolsun.\u201d<\/strong> Bu c\u00fcmle dudaklar\u0131mdan d\u00f6k\u00fclmedi, y\u00fcre\u011fimden y\u00fckseldi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 nimetler ancak hissedilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu duyguyu i\u00e7imde saklayamazd\u0131m. Telefonu elime ald\u0131m, \u00f6nce Sami A\u011fabey\u2019i, sonra da k\u0131ymetli karde\u015fi Veysel&#8217;i arad\u0131m. \u0130\u00e7imden ge\u00e7enleri oldu\u011fu gibi payla\u015ft\u0131m. Onlar da ayn\u0131 samimiyetle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verdiler. O an bir kez daha anlad\u0131m ki muhabbet tek tarafl\u0131 kurulmaz. G\u00f6n\u00fcl dili, ancak g\u00f6n\u00fclle konu\u015fur. Samimiyet samimiyeti \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. \u0130hlas, ihlas\u0131 \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte g\u00fczel ailelerin en belirgin \u00f6zelli\u011fi de budur. Sevgiyi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr, g\u00fcveni \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bug\u00fcn insanlar b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fehirlerde birbirlerinin isimlerini bile bilmeden ya\u015f\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 apartmanda oturuyorlar ama birbirlerinin ac\u0131lar\u0131ndan habersizler. Ayn\u0131 soka\u011f\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131yorlar ama g\u00f6n\u00fclleri birbirine u\u011fram\u0131yor. B\u00f6yle bir \u00e7a\u011fda Sami A\u011fabey gibi insanlar, bize kom\u015fulu\u011fun yaln\u0131zca duvar yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretiyor. Ger\u00e7ek kom\u015fuluk, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerin birbirine emanet olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 sofrada edilen dua, ayn\u0131 sevin\u00e7te tebess\u00fcm etmek, ayn\u0131 h\u00fcz\u00fcnde omuz olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ben inan\u0131yorum ki yolu Samsun\u2019dan ge\u00e7en herkes, imk\u00e2n bulursa Tekkek\u00f6y\u2019e u\u011framal\u0131 ve Sami A\u011fabey\u2019in g\u00f6n\u00fcl meclisinde bir bardak \u00e7ay i\u00e7melidir. Belki i\u00e7ece\u011fi \u00e7ay\u0131n lezzetini y\u0131llar sonra unutacakt\u0131r ama g\u00f6rece\u011fi samimiyeti unutamayacakt\u0131r. Belki yap\u0131lan sohbetin b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u00fcmlelerini hat\u0131rlamayacakt\u0131 ama hissetti\u011fi huzur uzun y\u0131llar g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde ya\u015famaya devam edecektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar s\u00f6zleriyle de\u011fil, h\u00e2lleriyle iz b\u0131rak\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dervi\u015flik, g\u00f6steri\u015fli k\u0131yafetler giymek de\u011fildir. Dervi\u015flik, insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc Allah\u2019a a\u00e7mas\u0131d\u0131r. Dervi\u015flik, kendisini b\u00fcy\u00fctmeden ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcceltmektir. Dervi\u015flik, k\u0131rmadan uyarmak, incitmeden sevmek, beklentiye girmeden ikram etmek, alk\u0131\u015f beklemeden hizmet etmektir. Ben, Sami A\u011fabey\u2019e bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda i\u015fte bu g\u00fczel hasletleri g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Bu y\u00fczden ona <strong>\u201cdervi\u015f\u201d<\/strong> derken bir \u00fcnvan vermiyorum, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hayat\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ifade etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rabb\u2019im, mahallelerimizi b\u00f6yle g\u00fczel insanlardan mahrum b\u0131rakmas\u0131n. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ya\u015fayarak \u00f6rnek olan b\u00fcy\u00fckler \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n. Bizlere de g\u00fczel insanlar\u0131n k\u0131ymetini, onlar hayattayken bilmeyi nasip etsin. Hac\u0131 Sami B\u00fclb\u00fcl A\u011fabey\u2019e, k\u0131ymetli ailesine sa\u011fl\u0131k, afiyet ve bereketli \u00f6m\u00fcrler ihsan eylesin. G\u00f6n\u00fcllerinden ihlas\u0131, sofralar\u0131ndan bereketi, dillerinden duay\u0131 eksik etmesin. Bizlere de onlar\u0131n dostlu\u011funu, kom\u015fulu\u011funu ve muhabbetini \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn en de\u011ferli nimetlerinden biri olarak koruyabilmeyi nasip eylesin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc inan\u0131yorum ki Allah dostlar\u0131n\u0131n bulundu\u011fu mahalleler yaln\u0131zca insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerler de\u011fil, rahmetin de konaklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 beldelerdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\" \/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" id=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> <strong>Aga: Samsun ve \u00e7evresinde yayg\u0131n olarak kullan\u0131lan mahall\u00ee bir hitap \u015feklidir. Ailede veya mahallede ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck erkeklere sevgi ve sayg\u0131 ifadesi olarak \u201caga\u201d denilir. Bu kullan\u0131m, resm\u00ee anlamdaki \u201ca\u011fa\u201d \u00fcnvan\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, y\u00f6resel bir h\u00fcrmet hitab\u0131n\u0131 ifade eder.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dervi\u015f\u2026 Bu kelimeyi duydu\u011fumuzda \u00e7o\u011fumuzun zihninde ge\u00e7mi\u015f zaman\u0131n kap\u0131lar\u0131 aralan\u0131r. G\u00f6zlerimizin \u00f6n\u00fcne y\u00fczy\u0131llar \u00f6nce ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, bir derg\u00e2h\u0131n avlusunda sessizce zikir \u00e7eken, d\u00fcnyaya s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc Allah\u2019a vermi\u015f insanlar gelir. Sanki dervi\u015flik eskilerde kalm\u0131\u015f, kitaplar\u0131n sararm\u0131\u015f sayfalar\u0131na hapsolmu\u015f bir hayat tarz\u0131d\u0131r. Oysa hakikat hi\u00e7 de \u00f6yle de\u011fildir. Allah dostlar\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u00e7a\u011fda eksik olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Her devirde, her &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":54736,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,54,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-guncel","category-omer","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54717"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54717\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":54718,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54717\/revisions\/54718"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}