{"id":53281,"date":"2026-04-22T21:46:25","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T18:46:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/?p=53281"},"modified":"2026-04-22T21:48:22","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T18:48:22","slug":"olmeye-yuzumuz-olsun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/olmeye-yuzumuz-olsun\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6lmeye Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz Olsun!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Post published:\u015eubat 4, 2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bazen durup kendime bak\u0131yorum. Ben de y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc yoklad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131, erteledi\u011fim minneti, susturdu\u011fum vefay\u0131 hissediyorum. \u0130\u015fte o an, ele g\u00fcne de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi vicdan\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kacak y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn kalmamas\u0131ndan korkuyorum.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Cemal BALIBEY<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc neden tutmaz? \u201cY\u00fcz\u00fcm tutmuyor!\u201d dedi\u011fimizde asl\u0131nda neyi s\u00f6ylemek, neyi itiraf etmek isteriz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu s\u00f6z, basit bir \u00e7ekingenli\u011fin ya da anl\u0131k bir mahcubiyetin \u00e7ok \u00f6tesinde bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131r. Daha derinde, insan\u0131n kendi vicdan\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu sessiz ama sars\u0131c\u0131 bir muhasebenin ifadesidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u201cy\u00fcz tutmak\u201d, yaln\u0131zca birine bakabilme cesareti de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda kendimizle y\u00fczle\u015febilme halidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yapamad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, ertelediklerimiz, eksik b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z vefalar, zaman\u0131nda s\u00f6ylenmemi\u015f te\u015fekk\u00fcrler ya da ge\u00e7 kal\u0131nm\u0131\u015f \u00f6z\u00fcrler durur bu hissin arkas\u0131nda, \u0130nsan \u201cy\u00fcz\u00fcm tutmuyor\u201d derken \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, \u201ci\u00e7imde tamamlanmam\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey var\u201d demek ister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cY\u00fcz tutmak\u201d, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzdan beri kula\u011f\u0131m\u0131za f\u0131s\u0131ldanan kadim bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fun sessiz \u00f6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcd\u00fcr bu. Bir elin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00f6\u011frenilir, bir bak\u0131\u015fta, bir duada peki\u015fir. Ard\u0131ndan vefa gelir, minnet gelir, sayg\u0131 gelir; insan\u0131 insan yapan ne varsa onunla anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fcmez; tutulan ellerle, a\u00e7\u0131lan yollarla, bo\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f g\u00fcvenlerle \u015fekillenir. Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn tutmas\u0131 da bu ba\u011flar\u0131n, bu hat\u0131r\u0131n, bu sorumlulu\u011fun fark\u0131nda olmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Ve belki de y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn tutmamas\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle bir zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; hala diri kalan bir vicdan\u0131n i\u015faretidir. \u0130nsan utanabiliyorsa, hala insan kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn elimizden tutan biri olur; d\u00fc\u015ferken yakalayan, karanl\u0131kta y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc bulmam\u0131za vesile olan\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn s\u0131rt\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kollayan bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar; arkam\u0131zdan konu\u015fulanlara set \u00e7eken, y\u00fck\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc hafifleten\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn susuzluktan kavrulurken bize beklentisizce bir tas su uzatan biri belirir hayat\u0131m\u0131zda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte onlara bakabilecek, onlarla gurur duyabilecek bir y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan sonra insan\u0131n, aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda maskelemeye ihtiya\u00e7 duymayaca\u011f\u0131 bir y\u00fcz\u00fc olmal\u0131; minneti saklamayan, vefay\u0131 ertelemeyen, sayg\u0131y\u0131 eksiltmeyen bir y\u00fcz\u00fc. O y\u00fcz, utanmadan bakabilmeli kendisine ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na; ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fmeden, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ka\u00e7\u0131rmadan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne b\u00fcy\u00fck, ne derin bir ifadedir: \u201cY\u00fcz\u00fc olmak!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130stemeye y\u00fcz\u00fc olmak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc istemek, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f iyiliklerin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131may\u0131 g\u00f6ze almakt\u0131r; ayn\u0131 zamanda bir g\u00fcven meselesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vermeye y\u00fcz\u00fc olmak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc vermek, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemeden sorumluluk almak, unutmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ilan etmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Duymaya y\u00fcz\u00fc olmak; gitmeye, gelmeye, aramaya\u2026 Susmaya ve konu\u015fmaya\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar, insan olman\u0131n ahlak terazisinde tart\u0131lan h\u00e2lleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y\u00fcz, yaln\u0131zca bir suret de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcz; insan\u0131n hayat boyunca biriktirdi\u011fi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n, ihmallerin ve iyiliklerin, k\u0131saca ki\u015fisel hik\u00e2yesinin haritas\u0131d\u0131r. Yap\u0131lan iyilikler kadar yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015f vefalar\u0131n, g\u00f6rmezden gelinen ac\u0131lar\u0131n, sessiz nank\u00f6rl\u00fcklerin ve ertelenen sorumluluklar\u0131n da haf\u0131zas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimlere te\u015fekk\u00fcr edilmedi\u011fini, kimlerin hakk\u0131n\u0131n sessizce ge\u00e7i\u015ftirildi\u011fini, hangi vefalar\u0131n zamana kurban edildi\u011fini; b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 en iyi y\u00fcz bilir. \u0130nsan, kendisine yak\u0131\u015fan\u0131 yapmaya devam etti\u011fi s\u00fcrece y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetmez. \u0130yilikleri unutanlar\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc ise zamanla a\u011f\u0131rla\u015f\u0131r; bak\u0131\u015fta bir kararma, duru\u015fta bir eksilme belirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama \u015fimdi etraf\u0131ma bak\u0131yorum da; s\u00f6z \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yor, vefa susuyor. Kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n ortas\u0131nday\u0131z ama herkes, birbirine arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f aynalar gibi. Bak\u0131\u015flar ka\u00e7ak, hat\u0131rlamalar zay\u0131f, minnet suskun. Kimsenin kimseye bakacak cesareti, y\u00fcz\u00fc kalmam\u0131\u015f sanki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve korkutucu olan \u015fu ki bu kayb\u0131 sadece ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorum. Ben de eksiliyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vefa, sayg\u0131, hat\u0131r bilmek\u2026 Bir zamanlar bizi ayakta tutan bu kadim de\u011ferler, g\u00fcndelik tela\u015flar\u0131n ve \u00e7\u0131kar hesaplar\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131nda sessizce a\u015f\u0131n\u0131yor. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman fark\u0131na varmadan biz de bu a\u015f\u0131nmaya ortak oluyor, ihmal ediyor, hatta unutuyoruz.<br>\u0130simleri unutmak belki insana mahsus bir zaaf; ama y\u00fczleri unutmak ba\u015fka bir \u015fey. Bir d\u00f6nem hayat\u0131m\u0131za dokunmu\u015f, varl\u0131klar\u0131yla iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f nice insan, s\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f y\u0131ld\u0131zlar gibi haf\u0131zam\u0131zdan silinip karanl\u0131\u011fa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fte bu silini\u015f, insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini sessizce kanatan tarifsiz bir s\u0131z\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bazen durup kendime bak\u0131yorum. Ben de y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc yoklad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131, erteledi\u011fim minneti, susturdu\u011fum vefay\u0131 hissediyorum. \u0130\u015fte o an, ele g\u00fcne de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi vicdan\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kacak y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn kalmamas\u0131ndan korkuyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00fcz, sadece bug\u00fcne d\u00f6n\u00fck de\u011fildir; yar\u0131na, tarihe ve en nihayetinde Allah\u2019a d\u00f6n\u00fckt\u00fcr. Bir g\u00fcn hesap g\u00fcn\u00fc geldi\u011finde, \u201cUnutmad\u0131m; \u00fczerime d\u00fc\u015feni yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.\u201d diyebilecek bir y\u00fcz gerek insana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki de bunun yolu b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zlerden de\u011fil, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama sahici ad\u0131mlardan ge\u00e7er: Bug\u00fcn bir te\u015fekk\u00fcrle ba\u015flayabiliriz; bir aramay\u0131 ertelemeyerek, hakk\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fimiz birini anarak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Allah; vefay\u0131 y\u00fck de\u011fil onur bilenlerden, minneti bir bor\u00e7 gibi de\u011fil bir ahl\u00e2k gibi ta\u015f\u0131yanlardan, sayg\u0131y\u0131 s\u00f6zde de\u011fil hayatta ya\u015fatanlardan eylesin bizleri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve insanlara oldu\u011fu kadar kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 da mahcup olmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir hayat\u0131; iyili\u011fin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc onurla ta\u015f\u0131yabilen bir y\u00fcz\u00fc nasip etsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve nasip etsin ki:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015farken oldu\u011fu gibi, \u00f6lmeye de y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz olsun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Post published:\u015eubat 4, 2026 Bazen durup kendime bak\u0131yorum. Ben de y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc yoklad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131, erteledi\u011fim minneti, susturdu\u011fum vefay\u0131 hissediyorum. \u0130\u015fte o an, ele g\u00fcne de\u011fil; insan\u0131n kendi vicdan\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kacak y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn kalmamas\u0131ndan korkuyorum. Cemal BALIBEY \u0130nsan\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc neden tutmaz? \u201cY\u00fcz\u00fcm tutmuyor!\u201d dedi\u011fimizde asl\u0131nda neyi s\u00f6ylemek, neyi itiraf etmek isteriz? Bu s\u00f6z, basit bir \u00e7ekingenli\u011fin ya da &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"featured_media":53286,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[58,44,38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-forum","category-egitim","category-guncel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/31"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53281"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53281\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":53285,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53281\/revisions\/53285"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}