{"id":50724,"date":"2024-07-16T18:56:44","date_gmt":"2024-07-16T15:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/?p=50724"},"modified":"2024-07-16T19:01:02","modified_gmt":"2024-07-16T16:01:02","slug":"soz-agizdan-cikinca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/soz-agizdan-cikinca\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00d6Z A\u011eIZDAN \u00c7IKINCA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mustafa Kolcu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130leti\u015fimin bir\u00e7ok t\u00fcr\u00fc vard\u0131r. Her bir t\u00fcr\u00fc, muhatab\u0131nda \u00e7e\u015fitli etkiler olu\u015fturur. S\u00f6z, sorumlulu\u011fu da beraberinde getirir. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131 do\u011fru s\u00f6zl\u00fc olmaya davet eden Kur’an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de: “Ey iman edenler! Allah\u2019a itaatsizlikten sak\u0131n\u0131n ve do\u011fru s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleyin ki, Allah sizin i\u015flerinizi d\u00fczeltsin, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flas\u0131n. Kim Allah\u2019a ve Resul\u00fcne itaat ederse ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kazan\u00e7 elde eder.”<\/strong> (33\/ Ahzab,70-71) uyar\u0131s\u0131yla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fimin \u00f6nemini \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir insan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r. S\u00f6z, ok gibidir. Okun nereye d\u00fc\u015fece\u011fini yay\u0131 geren bilmelidir. S\u00f6zler bu y\u00fczden \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc olmal\u0131, a\u011f\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131 kulak duymal\u0131d\u0131r. “Ben s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc s\u00f6yledim.” diyerek, yalana ve yanl\u0131\u015fa s\u00f6z\u00fc k\u0131l\u0131f yapmak do\u011fru ve ge\u00e7erli de\u011fildir. Peygamberimizin: “Allah’a ve ahiret g\u00fcn\u00fcne inanan ya hay\u0131r s\u00f6ylesin ya da sussun!”<\/strong> (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Edep 31) tavsiyesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan, s\u00f6yleyinceye kadar s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn sahibidir. S\u00f6z a\u011f\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca, art\u0131k s\u00f6z\u00fcn sorumlulu\u011fu vard\u0131r. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc kalbinin aynas\u0131d\u0131r, iman\u0131na \u015fahitlik eder. S\u00f6z\u00fcne yalan, hile ve aldatma kirleri bula\u015fmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bula\u015fan kirler varsa t\u00f6vbe-\u00f6z\u00fcr, helalle\u015fme kanal\u0131yla temizlenmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda art\u0131k s\u00f6zler, yaz\u0131lar, silinmiyor. Hatta kay\u0131tlara da giriyor. Sanal ortamlar\u0131n zaman zaman hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015f s\u00f6z veya videolar\u0131m\u0131z gibi, ger\u00e7ek ortamda ahirette amel defterlerimiz \u00fczerinden hesap i\u00e7in hat\u0131rlayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 unutmamak gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcn kalitesi niteli\u011findedir. En g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler Allah’\u0131n s\u00f6zleridir. (39\/ Z\u00fcmer,23) \u0130nsan, Rahman\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6zlerinin ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ileti\u015fimini kurmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 ancak kusursuz s\u00f6z olan vahiyle g\u00fczelle\u015ftirebilir. Bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131 dinlerken onun s\u00f6zlerinde vahyin kokusu hissedilmelidir. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda vahyin izleri g\u00f6r\u00fclmelidir. S\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek s\u0131radan gibi g\u00f6r\u00fclse de sahibini s\u0131rat\u0131 m\u00fcstakimde tutabilir ya da sapk\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsani ili\u015fkilerde \u015fik\u00e2yetlerin en temel sebeplerinden biri de s\u00f6z \u00fczerinedir. S\u00f6z\u00fcnde durmayan, s\u00f6z\u00fcyle aldatan, s\u00f6z\u00fcyle yan\u0131ltan, s\u00f6z\u00fcyle g\u00fcven duygular\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131pratan insanlar\u0131n \u00e7oklu\u011fu toplumlar\u0131 derin karanl\u0131klara d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. G\u00fcven duygusu insan i\u00e7in vazge\u00e7ilmezdir. G\u00fcvenin d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 yalan s\u00f6zler ve yapmac\u0131k davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Yalan, m\u00fcnaf\u0131klar\u0131n en temel vasf\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6yle ki yalanlar\u0131yla Allah\u2019\u0131 bile aldatmaya yeltenen aymazlar vard\u0131r. Yalan ile yolculuk eden azap ile kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. Do\u011fruluk ile yolculuk eden rahmet ile a\u011f\u0131rlan\u0131r. Yalan\u0131n girdi\u011fi yerde k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckler ye\u015ferir, iyileri ve iyilikleri azalt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f6z bozulunca, g\u00fcven duygusunun yerini menfaat duygusu al\u0131r. Menfaat bitince beraberlikler biter. Bu menfaate dayal\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131n\u0131 ku\u015fat\u0131r. Kar\u0131-koca ili\u015fkilerinden evlat-ebeveyn ili\u015fkilerine kadar her yer yalan\u0131n \u00e7iftli\u011fine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. A\u011f\u0131zlarda yalan\u0131n yuva yapmas\u0131, tam da \u015feytan\u0131n istedi\u011fi ortam\u0131 olu\u015fturur. Oysa s\u00f6z do\u011fru olunca, b\u00fct\u00fcn karanl\u0131klar \u015feytanlar\u0131yla birlikte da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131 birbirlerine ba\u011flayan en k\u0131ymetli \u015feylerden biri olan s\u00f6z\u00fcn do\u011frusuna sahip \u00e7\u0131kmak, do\u011fru s\u00f6zl\u00fc olmak, ki\u015filerin bulunduklar\u0131 ortamlar\u0131 bereketlendirir. \u0130nsan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda olumlu veya olumsuz etkilerini hissetti\u011fi s\u00f6zler, yaz\u0131lar, g\u00f6rseller k\u0131ymetlidir. A\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yaralara deva da olabilir, yeni devas\u0131z yaralar da a\u00e7abilir. S\u00f6zler vard\u0131r, sevinci kedere \u00e7evirir. S\u00f6zler vard\u0131r, kederi sevince \u00e7evirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f6z ola kese sava\u015f\u0131, s\u00f6z ola bitire ba\u015f\u0131 \/ S\u00f6z olur sava\u015f\u0131 sona erdirir, s\u00f6z olur yaray\u0131 iyile\u015ftirir S\u00f6z ola agulu a\u015f\u0131 bal ile ya\u011f ede bir s\u00f6z \/ S\u00f6z olur zehirli a\u015f\u0131, bal ile ya\u011f eder. (Yunus Emre)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan\u0131 de\u011ferli k\u0131lan do\u011frulu\u011fudur. As\u0131l itibar\u0131yla her \u015fey do\u011frulu\u011fu, niteli\u011fi kadar de\u011ferlidir. S\u00f6z\u00fcn hangi dilde s\u00f6ylendi\u011finin \u00f6nemi yoktur. Hangi niyet ve \u00fcslup ile s\u00f6ylendi\u011fi \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130nsan, ilahi s\u00f6ze muhatap olmu\u015f bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r. S\u00f6z\u00fcn do\u011frusunu asla yere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmemelidir. D\u00fcnyal\u0131k kazan\u0131mlar u\u011fruna yalana sar\u0131lanlar, cehennemin ate\u015fine sar\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Do\u011fruluk bazen d\u00fcnyal\u0131k kay\u0131plara sebep olabilir. Ancak do\u011frulu\u011fun yolu cennete \u00e7\u0131kar. S\u00f6z deyip ge\u00e7ilmesin diye s\u00f6ze onca ilke getiren \u0130slam’\u0131n m\u00fcbarek s\u00f6zlerine kalplerde yer vermek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fc korumak gerekir. S\u00f6z\u00fc ziyan olaca\u011f\u0131 yerlerde kullanmamak gerekir. Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n korundu\u011fu gibi s\u00f6zler de korunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Her ne i\u00e7in konu\u015fuluyorsa, s\u00f6z do\u011fru olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fi, konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n karakterine b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcr. Yalan\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f haline gelir. Y\u0131lan\u0131n yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yalan ile yapar hale gelir. S\u00f6z ile aldat\u0131r, s\u00f6z ile y\u0131prat\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00fczel s\u00f6zl\u00fc olmak i\u00e7in, g\u00fczel s\u00f6zl\u00fcleri bilmek ve en g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fcn sahibini dinlemek gerekir: \u201cAllah\u2019a \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran, dine ve d\u00fcnyaya yararl\u0131 i\u015f yapan ve \u2018Ben M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlardan\u0131m\u2019 diyenden daha g\u00fczel s\u00f6zl\u00fc kim vard\u0131r?\u201d <\/strong>(41\/ Fussilet, 33)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mustafa Kolcu \u0130leti\u015fimin bir\u00e7ok t\u00fcr\u00fc vard\u0131r. Her bir t\u00fcr\u00fc, muhatab\u0131nda \u00e7e\u015fitli etkiler olu\u015fturur. S\u00f6z, sorumlulu\u011fu da beraberinde getirir. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131 do\u011fru s\u00f6zl\u00fc olmaya davet eden Kur’an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de: “Ey iman edenler! Allah\u2019a itaatsizlikten sak\u0131n\u0131n ve do\u011fru s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleyin ki, Allah sizin i\u015flerinizi d\u00fczeltsin, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flas\u0131n. Kim Allah\u2019a ve Resul\u00fcne itaat ederse ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kazan\u00e7 elde eder.” …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27,"featured_media":50726,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,65,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-guncel","category-mustafa","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50724","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/27"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50724"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50724\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50726"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50724"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50724"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50724"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}