{"id":4545,"date":"2015-03-16T07:00:50","date_gmt":"2015-03-16T05:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/dergi\/?p=4545"},"modified":"2023-11-04T20:12:30","modified_gmt":"2023-11-04T17:12:30","slug":"ayna-ayna-sus-ve-sakin-bana-kusurlarimi-soyleme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/ayna-ayna-sus-ve-sakin-bana-kusurlarimi-soyleme\/","title":{"rendered":"AYNA AYNA SUS VE SAKIN BANA KUSURLARIMI S\u00d6YLEME!&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"Snippet ClearLeft NoDisplay FakeSnippet\">Me\u011fer,biribirlerimizin y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u201cg\u00f6rmemek\u201d i\u00e7in bakarm\u0131\u015f\u0131z&#8230;Bakar k\u00f6r olarak bakarm\u0131\u015f\u0131z ve bu \u015fekildeki bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 da \u201cm\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131k \u015fiar\u0131\u201d olarak yaparm\u0131\u015f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Peygamberimiz Efendimiz..\u201dM\u00fc\u2019min,M\u00fc\u2019min\u2019in aynas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d buyurdu ya&#8230;Bu buyru\u011fun ne anlama geldi\u011fini de hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyecekmi\u015fiz&#8230;.Bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman karde\u015fimizin y\u00fcz\u00fcnde ve halinde bir \u201ckara\u201d g\u00f6rd\u00fcysek.. O kara\u2019y\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyecek,o kara\u2019y\u0131 kendi nefsimizde arayacakm\u0131\u015f\u0131z&#8230;Din\u2019in fazilet anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 bunu gerektirirmi\u015f&#8230;E\u011fer,o \u201ckara\u201dy\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr de..\u201dAaa..Karde\u015f y\u00fcz\u00fcnde kara var\u201d dersek..\u201dDin\u201din fazilet anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f\u0131z&#8230;Bu i\u015fimiz \u201cm\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131 karalamak\u201d anlam\u0131na gelirmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>O halde..\u201dM\u00fc\u2019min,M\u00fc\u2019min\u2019in aynas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d diye niye buyuruldu?<\/p>\n<p>Soruyu burada b\u0131rakal\u0131m&#8230;B\u0131rakal\u0131m ve \u201cayna\u201dya niye bakar\u0131z,o soruyu cevaplayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Pamuk Prensesin \u00fcvey annesinden biliriz&#8230;\u00dcvey anne,aynaya bakar ve sorar:\u201dAyna ayna s\u00f6yle bana..Benden daha g\u00fczeli var m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn aynalar gibi&#8230;Pamuk Prenses\u2019in \u00dcvey Annesi\u2019nin aynas\u0131 da yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi bilmez.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7bir ayna yalan s\u00f6ylemez..Mutlaka do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yler&#8230;Bu y\u00fczden,k\u0131r\u0131lmay\u0131 bile g\u00f6ze al\u0131r ve \u201cSiz g\u00fczelsiniz sultan\u0131m..Ama,senden daha g\u00fczel Pamuk Prenses var\u201d der&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Pamuk Prenses Masal\u0131 bir \u201cgavur\u201d masal\u0131&#8230;Bu y\u00fczden,bu masaldaki \u201cayna\u201d biraz yaltak\u00e7\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcvey anne\u2019ye yaltaklanarak cevap verir&#8230;\u201dSiz g\u00fczelsiniz ama\u201d diye s\u00f6ze ba\u015flar..\u00d6nce yaltak\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapar..Sonra da vermesi gereken cevab\u0131 verir:\u201dSenden daha g\u00fczel Pamuk Prenses var\u201d deyiverir&#8230;Bu masal,\u201dm\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u201d masal\u0131 olsa,ayna,o yaltak\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 da yapmaz&#8230;Ve hatta \u00f6yle bir soruyu da kabul etmez.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcsl\u00fcman,aynaya soruyu \u015f\u00f6yle sorar:<\/p>\n<p>-Ayna ayna s\u00f6yle bana..Benim neremde kusur var?<\/p>\n<p>Nitekim..M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar,\u201dayna\u201dya bakarken bir \u201cdua\u201d okuyarak aynaya bakarlar&#8230;Dua\u2019n\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011finde hem \u201c\u015f\u00fck\u00fcr\u201d vard\u0131r hem de \u201ckusur aray\u0131\u015f\u0131\u201d vard\u0131r&#8230;Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusuru de\u011fil..Kendi kusurunun aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131r&#8230;Zaten,\u201dba\u015fka\u201ds\u0131 yok..Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki \u201cayna\u201dd\u0131r ve \u201cayna\u201dda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc,kendisidir&#8230;Kusur ar\u0131yorsa,kendisinin kusurunu ar\u0131yordur.Ayna\u2019n\u0131n g\u00f6revi,ona ait kusurlar\u0131,hal diliyle s\u00f6ylemektir.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fc\u2019min insan\u0131n o aynadan fark\u0131 \u201ccam\u201d olmamas\u0131d\u0131r&#8230;Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla,canl\u0131d\u0131r ve bir de \u201cdil\u201di vard\u0131r&#8230;Cam ayna,sadece hal diliyle konu\u015furken,bir ba\u015fka ayna olan \u201cm\u00fc\u2019min\u201d insan,bir de \u201cka\u2019l\u201d diliyle konu\u015facakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>-Konu\u015facak da ne konu\u015facak?<\/p>\n<p>-Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kim varsa&#8230;Kendi kusurunu arayan kim varsa..Ona ait kusurlar\u0131 kendisine bir bir sayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu olaya,\u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda \u201cele\u015ftiri k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d veya \u201coto-kontrol\u201d ad\u0131 veriliyor&#8230;Bilgisayar \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda da \u201cvir\u00fcs temizleme\u201d ad\u0131 veriliyor&#8230;En sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 toplumlar,kusurlar\u0131n\u0131,bir \u201cayna\u201d titizli\u011fi ile ortaya koyarlar ve kusurlar\u0131ndan bir bir ay\u0131klan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Peygamberimiz Efendimiz..\u201dM\u00fc\u2019min,m\u00fc\u2019min\u2019in aynas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d buyururken,bize,b\u00f6ylesi bir hayat tarz\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlemi\u015ftir.Bu y\u00fczden,Hazret-i Mevlana,kendisine ait kusurlar\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen insanlar\u0131 \u201cdostum\u201d diye tarif etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Mevlana \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n<p>-M\u00fc\u2019min, m\u00fc\u2019min\u2019in aynas\u0131d\u0131r,buyurulmu\u015ftur.\u0130nsan insan\u0131n aynas\u0131d\u0131r denmemi\u015ftir. M\u00fc\u2019min, m\u00fc\u2019min\u2019in aynas\u0131d\u0131r,denmi\u015ftir.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc,temyiz vasf\u0131 sadece m\u00fc\u2019mindedir.Ayna,bizim de\u011fil kusurlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131d\u0131r.Ben de kusurlar\u0131m\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131y\u0131m&#8230;D\u00fc\u015fman\u0131m\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 benim dostumdur.<\/p>\n<p>Kendilerini,\u201dm\u00fc\u2019min\u201d sayd\u0131ktan sonra bir de \u201cakil\u201d sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u201cinsan\u201dlardan,\u201dayna\u201dl\u0131k g\u00f6revimizi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00f6z\u00fcr dilememiz beklenirsa&#8230;Biz,o \u00f6zr\u00fc dilemeyiz&#8230;Cezam\u0131z neyse o cezay\u0131 \u00e7ekeriz&#8230;Cezam\u0131z k\u0131r\u0131lmaksa..K\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ayna..K\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r ama..K\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131 bile do\u011frusunu s\u00f6ylemeye devam eder.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Me\u011fer,biribirlerimizin y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u201cg\u00f6rmemek\u201d i\u00e7in bakarm\u0131\u015f\u0131z&#8230;Bakar k\u00f6r olarak bakarm\u0131\u015f\u0131z ve bu \u015fekildeki bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 da \u201cm\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131k \u015fiar\u0131\u201d olarak yaparm\u0131\u015f\u0131z. Peygamberimiz Efendimiz..\u201dM\u00fc\u2019min,M\u00fc\u2019min\u2019in aynas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d buyurdu ya&#8230;Bu buyru\u011fun ne anlama geldi\u011fini de hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyecekmi\u015fiz&#8230;.Bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman karde\u015fimizin y\u00fcz\u00fcnde ve halinde bir \u201ckara\u201d g\u00f6rd\u00fcysek.. O kara\u2019y\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyecek,o kara\u2019y\u0131 kendi nefsimizde arayacakm\u0131\u015f\u0131z&#8230;Din\u2019in fazilet anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 bunu gerektirirmi\u015f&#8230;E\u011fer,o \u201ckara\u201dy\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr de..\u201dAaa..Karde\u015f y\u00fcz\u00fcnde kara var\u201d dersek..\u201dDin\u201din &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":48521,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[53,38,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-aydin","category-guncel","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4545"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4545\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}