{"id":11299,"date":"2016-03-10T22:00:18","date_gmt":"2016-03-10T20:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/dergi\/?p=11299"},"modified":"2023-11-07T11:29:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-07T08:29:36","slug":"arkadas-kurbanlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/arkadas-kurbanlari\/","title":{"rendered":"ARKADA\u015e KURBANLARI"},"content":{"rendered":"

Arkada\u015f kelimesi bir s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, samimiyetin ve bir tercihin ifadesidir. \u0130nsan hangi anne ve baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7emez, hangi \u015fehirde do\u011faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da se\u00e7emez. Sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn rengini, \u0131rk\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7emeyece\u011fi gibi. Zaten insan\u0131n se\u00e7iminde s\u00f6z sahibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015feyle \u00f6v\u00fcnmesi de aymazl\u0131k olur. Olumlu taraf\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda arkada\u015f kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak sevgiyi, sayg\u0131y\u0131, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131, vefay\u0131 ve sadakati ifade eder. Aksini ise s\u00f6ylemeye gerek yok; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her taraf onlarla doludur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eskilerimizin eskimez s\u00f6zlerinden bir tanesi ise \u201cBana arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yle sana kim oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyeyim.\u201d<\/b>dir. Arkada\u015f \u00e7evresini iyilerden se\u00e7emeyen insanlar, bu t\u00fcr ki\u015filerle birlikte olup ayn\u0131 i\u015fleri yapmaya ba\u015flarlar ve k\u00f6t\u00fc yola girerler. Zaten k\u00f6t\u00fcn\u00fcn iyiyi kendi gibi yapma istidad\u0131; iyinin k\u00f6t\u00fcy\u00fc iyi yapma istidad\u0131ndan daha kuvvetlidir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z evde duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 olumsuz ve \u00e7irkin s\u00f6zleri kullanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131ysa arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n kimlerden olu\u015ftu\u011funu takip etmemiz gerekmektedir. M\u00fcdahale edemedi\u011fimiz sosyal \u00e7evreler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za pek\u00e2l\u00e2 kolayca m\u00fcdahale edebilmekte, sonu\u00e7ta yavrular\u0131m\u0131z elimizden kay\u0131p gitmektedir. <\/span><\/p>\n

K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli olan \u00e7evre tehditleri ve arkada\u015f kurban\u0131 olma durumu, gen\u00e7lerimiz i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. \u00d6zellikle \u00fcniversiteler bu durumlar\u0131n en yo\u011fun olarak ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 alanlard\u0131r. Herkesin haf\u0131zas\u0131nda ve hat\u0131ras\u0131nda, \u00fcniversitedeki \u00e7evresinden dolay\u0131 bir s\u00fcr\u00fc hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve hayat k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f gen\u00e7lerin hik\u00e2yeleri vard\u0131r. Arkada\u015f aya\u011f\u0131na kap\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 bu olumsuz \u00e7evrelerden gen\u00e7ler nas\u0131l kurtulacak, kim kurtaracak? Bir\u00e7o\u011funun hayat\u0131n\u0131n kay\u0131p gitti\u011fine \u015fahit olduk. Bundan dolay\u0131 gen\u00e7lere iyiyi ve g\u00fczeli anlatmaktan, yitik farz\u0131m\u0131z olan <\/span>Emr-i bi’l ma’r\u00fbf ve nehy-i anil m\u00fcnker<\/span><\/b>\u2019i <\/b>yeniden hayat\u0131m\u0131za m\u00fcdahil etmeliyiz. <\/b><\/span>“\u0130yili\u011fi emretmek ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten men etmek<\/span><\/b>“\u00a0ten asla vazge\u00e7memeliyiz. Aksi halde \u00fcniversitelere donan\u0131ms\u0131z giden yavrular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ak\u0131beti bir televizyon haberi olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kabilmektedir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Rahmetli Tu\u011frul \u00c7etin hocam\u0131z \u201csakaklar kazanmas\u0131n, biz kazanal\u0131m\u201d derdi. Okul y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131zda bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn mahiyetini pek de anlamazd\u0131k. Ta ki \u00f6\u011frencilerimizin, yavrular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, gen\u00e7lerimizin elimizden kay\u0131p gitti\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcnceye kadar. Maalesef g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sokak k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ve \u00e7evre daha bask\u0131n ve tercih edilir oldu.\u00a0 Hatta bunlar anneye, babaya, a\u011fabeye ve ablaya bile tercih edilir oldu. Sokak ve \u00e7evre kendisine \u00e7ok temiz ve saf duygularla gelen gen\u00e7leri geldikleri safl\u0131kta ve temizlikte b\u0131rakm\u0131yor. Kendisiyle aynile\u015ftiriyor, \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015ftiriyor. Bu gen\u00e7lerden h\u0131rs\u0131z, zani, cani, ter\u00f6rist ve vatan hainleri \u00e7\u0131kartabiliyor. Bize de bu gen\u00e7lerin ard\u0131ndan yak\u0131nmak kal\u0131yor. Bizim y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fczden, bizim olumsuz yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131zdan ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan dolay\u0131 gen\u00e7lerimiz buralara ve k\u00f6t\u00fc emelleri olan insanlar\u0131n eline d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorsa vay halimize. Bu vebal de g\u00fcnah olarak bize yeter de artar bile. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ayd\u0131nlatmaya, uyarmaya, uyand\u0131rmaya, dikkat \u00e7ekmeye devam edece\u011fiz. Bana ne dedi\u011fimiz an toplumsal olarak bitti\u011fimiz and\u0131r. Sevgili peygamberimiz Hz. Ali\u2019ye hitaben \u201cEy Ali! Allah Teala\u2019n\u0131n senin sayende tek bir ki\u015fiye hidayet etmesi, iyi bil ki sana k\u0131z\u0131l develer bah\u015fedilmesinden \u00e7ok daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d <\/b>Peygamberimiz yine bir ba\u015fka hadisinde \u201cEy Ali! Bil ki, senin elinle bir insan\u0131n hidayet bulmas\u0131, g\u00fcne\u015fin \u00fczerine do\u011fdu\u011fu her \u015feyden daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d <\/b>buyurmaktad\u0131r. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Arkada\u015f kurbanlar\u0131n\u0131, \u00fcmmet ailemizin yitik evlatlar\u0131n\u0131 aray\u0131p bulal\u0131m, \u015fefkat elimizi ellerine uzatal\u0131m. Onlar\u0131n birilerinin kurban\u0131 olmaktan kurtarmak i\u00e7in Rabbimizden yard\u0131m dileyelim.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Arkada\u015f kelimesi bir s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, samimiyetin ve bir tercihin ifadesidir. \u0130nsan hangi anne ve baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7emez, hangi \u015fehirde do\u011faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da se\u00e7emez. Sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn rengini, \u0131rk\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7emeyece\u011fi gibi. Zaten insan\u0131n se\u00e7iminde s\u00f6z sahibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015feyle \u00f6v\u00fcnmesi de aymazl\u0131k olur. Olumlu taraf\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda arkada\u015f kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak sevgiyi, sayg\u0131y\u0131, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131, vefay\u0131 ve sadakati ifade eder. Aksini …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":48521,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,54,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11299","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-guncel","category-omer","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11299","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11299"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11299\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11299"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11299"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11299"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}