{"id":11157,"date":"2016-03-05T00:46:14","date_gmt":"2016-03-04T22:46:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/dergi\/?p=11157"},"modified":"2023-11-07T11:29:36","modified_gmt":"2023-11-07T08:29:36","slug":"basortusunu-bos-ortu-yapanlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/basortusunu-bos-ortu-yapanlar\/","title":{"rendered":"BA\u015e\u00d6RT\u00dcS\u00dcN\u00dc BO\u015e \u00d6RT\u00dc YAPANLAR"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc takmak, kullanmak Allah\u2019\u0131n emri ve tesett\u00fcr\u00fcn gere\u011fidir. 1980\u2019li, 1990\u2019l\u0131 ve 2000\u2019li y\u0131llarda T\u00fcrkiye toplumu, kad\u0131n\u0131yla erke\u011fi ile ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131yla genciyle, \u00e7olu\u011fu ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcne \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesi verdi. M\u00fccadelenin alan\u0131 \u0130mam Hatip okullar\u0131ndan \u00fcniversitelere, hastanelerden i\u015fyerlerine kadar yay\u0131l\u0131yordu. Ve o g\u00fcnlerde televizyonlarda ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn Allah\u2019\u0131n emri olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan hangi \u015fekilde ba\u011flanaca\u011f\u0131na kadar her \u015fey tart\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yordu. Yine o g\u00fcnlerde ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc takan takmayan herkes hangi ayetlerde emredildi\u011fini de biliyordu. Ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fclerin ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc kullanmayanlara g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcn binde biri bile ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fclere g\u00f6sterilmiyordu. Devlet d\u00f6vlet olmu\u015f, a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcne ve ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fclere d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k yap\u0131yordu. Koca koca ahlaks\u0131z \u00fcniversite hocalar\u0131 ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fc av\u0131na \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f, s\u0131n\u0131flarda ve anfilerde finoluk yap\u0131yorlard\u0131. Gelece\u011finizi yakar\u0131m, memuriyetten atar\u0131m diye h\u00f6yk\u00fcn\u00fcyorlard\u0131. Niceleri okullar\u0131ndan, i\u015flerinden ayr\u0131lmak zorunda kald\u0131. Kutlu bir m\u00fccadelenin ard\u0131ndan o karanl\u0131k g\u00fcnler geride kald\u0131. Hamd olsun zor ve kor g\u00fcnlerin karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa kavu\u015ftuk.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kutlu bir m\u00fccadelenin sonucunda kavu\u015ftu\u011fumuz ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz ne ac\u0131d\u0131r ve hazindir ki yine ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fcler taraf\u0131ndan dejenere edilmektedir. Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fcleri, tamamen dini hassasiyetten uzak, modan\u0131n savurdu\u011fu bir y\u00f6nlendirme ve birtak\u0131m duygusal hislerle ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc takmaktad\u0131rlar. B\u00f6yle bir ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc kullanmay\u0131 nerede okudular, nerede g\u00f6rd\u00fcler ve kimleri \u00f6rnek ald\u0131lar? Babaanneniz, anneanneniz, anan\u0131z, teyzeniz, halan\u0131z sizin gibi mi ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc ba\u011fl\u0131yordu? <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu \u015fekilde sadece sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6rts\u00fcn gerisi fark etmez mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc sizi ba\u015fkala\u015ft\u0131rmayacakt\u0131r. Bu \u015fekilde ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc sizi darac\u0131k giyinmekten al\u0131koyuyor mu? Cilalanmaktan ve boyanmaktan vazge\u00e7iriyor mu? Kabaday\u0131lar gibi ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yere vura vura y\u00fcr\u00fcmekten vazge\u00e7iriyor mu? Toplumun i\u00e7inde k\u00f6t\u00fc kad\u0131nlar gibi sak\u0131z patlatmaktan al\u0131koyuyor mu? Kahkaha ile g\u00fclerken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck dilinizin dahi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesini engelleyebiliyor mu? Bu \u015fekilde takt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, ba\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc sizi daha imanl\u0131, daha ahlakl\u0131 yap\u0131yor mu? Namazlar\u0131n\u0131za be\u015fe be\u015f katt\u0131r\u0131yor mu? T\u00fcm olumsuzluklar\u0131 yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fczlerden ne fark\u0131n\u0131z var? Onlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 neleri yapm\u0131yorsunuz? Bu nas\u0131l bir ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr ki sizi, genel anlamda olumsuz olan hi\u00e7bir s\u00f6z ve davran\u0131\u015ftan engelleyemiyor? Ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcz oldu\u011fu halde sizden daha ahlakl\u0131, daha edepli, daha han\u0131mefendi, namaz\u0131na niyaz\u0131na dikkat eden nice kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z var. Onlar\u0131n belki de tek eksikleri ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc iken, sizin hangi olumlu taraf\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sayabiliriz ki? Bak\u0131n Araplar\u0131n bir atas\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r: \u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fahididir. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 nas\u0131lsa \u00f6z\u00fc de \u00f6yledir.\u201d<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131 l\u00fctfen bir hakaret, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama olarak alg\u0131lamay\u0131n\u0131z. Sadece kendinize geliniz. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizin neyin m\u00fccadelesini verdi\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. Gerekirse bu konuda b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizi bir dinleyin.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bunlar bir durum tespitidir. Size ve kendimize yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir duan\u0131n gerek\u00e7esidir. Ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc gelene\u011fin ve duygusall\u0131\u011f\u0131n esaretinden kurtar\u0131n\u0131z. Allah\u2019\u0131n bir emri olarak gere\u011fi gibi yerine getiriniz ve \u201cba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d \u201cbo\u015f \u00f6rt\u00fc\u201d<\/b> olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131n\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6mer Naci YILMAZ<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc takmak, kullanmak Allah\u2019\u0131n emri ve tesett\u00fcr\u00fcn gere\u011fidir. 1980\u2019li, 1990\u2019l\u0131 ve 2000\u2019li y\u0131llarda T\u00fcrkiye toplumu, kad\u0131n\u0131yla erke\u011fi ile ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131yla genciyle, \u00e7olu\u011fu ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcne \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesi verdi. M\u00fccadelenin alan\u0131 \u0130mam Hatip okullar\u0131ndan \u00fcniversitelere, hastanelerden i\u015fyerlerine kadar yay\u0131l\u0131yordu. Ve o g\u00fcnlerde televizyonlarda ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn Allah\u2019\u0131n emri olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan hangi \u015fekilde ba\u011flanaca\u011f\u0131na kadar her \u015fey tart\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yordu. Yine …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":48521,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[38,54,43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11157","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-guncel","category-omer","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11157","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11157"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11157\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11157"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11157"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/akincilardergisi.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11157"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}